Women get it, guys can too!
There's so much acceptance of toys and tools for sexual fulfilment nowadays that, statistically speaking, your top drawer probably has one or two just like everyone else. However, when people think of 'sex-aids' or 'adult toys' (or whatever else you want to call them), most people think of vibrators or perhaps dildos ... which most people will think as being for the ladies. I think any mindset that toys are primarily for women doesn't help men at all, and it's time guys got with the program.
Don't get me wrong, we're 100% on board with women taking ownership of their sexual needs. No woman should be wholly dependent on anyone else for their sexual gratification and whether it's to complement their sex-life with a significant or temporary other, or themselves, or just because, is irrelevant. Their use is not a reflection of the state of their relationship or anything else, other than that they are doing something about their needs. Vibrators, dildos, and the myriad of other toys and tools on offer address a need and they work, so why not? The fact is that the same goes for men, too, and the same arguments for why women should (and do) have vibrators and other toys are just as applicable.
Women get vibrators because their use can enhance sex with another. Perhaps their intimacy is good, but not great, or could be better, and various toys are just the trick to get warmed up, improve sex or allow them to get the same release as their partner. Guys should be learning from women on that front. Yes, men are not stereotypically the ones to be underwhelmed with sex, but if men really knew that toys could make their sex better, surely they'd be on board.
Some women get vibrators because they want sex to be better for their partner. Perhaps they recognise that something isn't what it could be for their partner and they want to address their partner's needs just as much as their own. Admirable, sure, but toys can make sex better for their partner ... as well as themselves - it's the quintessential 'everyone wins' ploy. Men could learn a lot there, too.
Above all else, women get vibrators for themselves. They recognise the empowerment which comes from masturbation and while their fingers might be adequate for purpose, products designed specifically for that purpose are absolutely and undeniably better. Vibrators are purse-sized applications of technology that prove that scientific R&D can really improve the lives of ordinary people, men and women. Like I said, women get it, but men are a lot slower to embrace toys and tools just for them.
The fact is that men can similarly benefit from technology focussed on male biology. No-one is going to deny that men masturbate, but it seems that many see masturbation as a very hands-on affair and nothing more is needed. It's time that men confronted this mindset like women do: maybe I don't need something to help, but that little something can make my 'me-time' so much better. Think about it, guys, your masturbation could be better. Enough said.
Sleeves, masturbators, and the like are male masturbation devices. That's what they are used for. That's what they are designed for. That's what they are made for. That's what they are good for. More correctly, that's what they are excellent for. Most are snug-fitting tubes with a sensory enhancing feel on the inside and an aesthetic outside to appeal to a variety of tastes. There are some which look like a vagina/vulva, others look like an anus and some look invitingly like a mouth. Some include vibration and/or suction, and some are automated so you can just sit back and enjoy while technology does all the work.
Guys, if you haven't got one in your top drawer, it's time you started to think why that is. Do you think that you're the one who masturbates? Do you really think your hand is ultimate masturbation utility? Do you really think that people, men, would have invented devices for this purpose if they didn't see the need or if they didn't work? Get serious.
I might add that beyond just masturbation, men are slowly discovering the joys of their 'P-Spot' and what devices are available to add that certain zing when they do their thing. In that sense, the hetero community is catching up on what the gay community has known all along. It's got nothing to do with orientation, and everything to do with male biology.
The bottom line. Gentlemen, it's high time you got on board and discovered for yourself what the enlightened 50% of the population have long known.
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Of course, Top Drawer Essentials has a great range of toys and masturbation aids to suit men and women. Guys, check out our masturbators for men and for the ladies we've got plenty of vibrators (battery, rechargeable and mains powered). We only stock quality products and of course we ship throughout Australia. While you're here, you can also stock up your top drawer with condoms, dams, lubricants, dildos, plugs, cockrings, balls and eggs, and more. We've even got a referral program so you can help your friends find that essential for their top drawer, too.
And yes, Top Drawer Essentials can offer suggestions if you like. After all, we are all about safe sex, solo sex, fun sex and better sex.
You can always email us questions: concierge@TopDrawerEssentials.com.au