A celebration of anatomy!
Our mailbox recently included some animated discussion suggesting our male masturbation aids (sleeves, strokers, masturbators, love dolls etc) don't foster promote healthy attitudes. Aside from the fact that we're happy people are talking about them (and about time!), they couldn't be further from the truth: masturbation aids are simply a celebration of anatomy!
To be clear, we at Top Drawer Essentials are big believers in masturbation, for men and women, and we want people to talk about and enhance their masturbation. Guys masturbate. Everyone knows it. Women do, too, sure, but let's focus on men. However, just because men are rising above apes to use something other than their hands doesn't mean they are being disrespectful of women or that the devices themselves are disrespectful.
The fact is that many of our male masturbation aids are stylistically anatomical, and arousingly so. Without labouring the point, many of our masturbators look like vulvas and anuses, and they feel like vulvas and anuses. That's what they are made for ... and they work very well, which is why more and more men have one or two in their top drawer.
They don't look like they do to denigrate women (or men). They just look like they do for form and function, appealing to an obvious market for masturbation aids whereby sensual appeal is enhanced by adding a certain look. Product development which saw them evolve from rigid materials to soft pliable materials enabled them to be molded. From there it wasn't a giant leap to discover that looking like something really inviting for penis insertion was going be better than looking like a pencil sharpener, exhaust pipe or apple pie.
Yes, they do look realistic: imitation to the point of flattery. Some are molded on the anatomy of individuals happy to put their name to products bearing their intimate likeness, but all are obviously purposeful. They don't look like an appliance with a secret sexual transformer function, they just look like the anatomy they are trying to imitate, so much so that adolescents are discovering their merits, presumably for purely educational interest. Of course, 'love doll' products extend that appreciation of female anatomy further to include hips, torsos or even full bodies.
Importantly, at a time when female bodies are forever scrutinised and there's a perpetual quest for the perfect body, it's interesting that these male masturbation devices demonstrate so much variation. If you have a look at our range you're liable to see large labias and small labias, different lips and distinctive folds. Based on the range, men obviously have no fixation on what amounts to the 'ideal' female form. If anything, men are more appreciative of the diversity of female bodies than women are!
Make no mistake, male masturbation aids are the quintessential celebration of anatomy, the female form in particular. Far from being disrespectful of women, they honour and glorify women and their bodies. Their use is not a reflection of the user or what he thinks of women, other than the fact that he's honest with himself enough to understand the benefits of masturbation and that there's something magical in the female body.
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Of course, Top Drawer Essentials has a great range of toys and masturbation aids to suit men and women. Your hand was good enough for you once, but you're better than that now and you owe it to yourself to enjoy our masturbators for men and vibrators for the ladies (battery, rechargeable and mains powered). We only stock quality products and of course we ship throughout Australia. While you're here, you can also stock up your top drawer with condoms, dams, lubricants, dildos, plugs, cockrings, balls and eggs, and more. We've even got a referral program so you can help your friends find that essential for their top drawer, too.
And yes, Top Drawer Essentials can offer suggestions if you like. After all, we are all about safe sex, solo sex, fun sex and better sex.
You can always email us questions: concierge@TopDrawerEssentials.com.au
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