Our Top Drawer Essentials (e)mailbag offers an endless stream of interesting questions and recently we were asked if there's a church discount.  Churches don't pay taxes in Australia, so I initially thought the request was a little rich, but then I thought 'what would Jesus do?'. 

Our mailbox recently included some animated discussion suggesting male masturbation aids (sleeves, strokers, masturbators, love dolls etc) don't foster promote healthy attitudes.  Far from it, just because men are rising above apes to use something other than their hands doesn't mean they are being disrespectful of women or that the devices themselves are disrespectful.

There's so much acceptance of toys and tools for sexual fulfillment nowadays that, statistically speaking, your top drawer probably has one or two just like everyone else. However, when people think of 'sex-aids' or 'adult toys' (or whatever else you want to call them), most people think of vibrators or perhaps dildos ... which most people will think as being for the ladies. I think any mindset that toys are primarily for women doesn't help men at all, and it's time guys got with the program.